For most of my Adult life I've said something along the lines of "I got this".... Many times!
I often wonder, Do I?
Some days I feel like I'm the only Adult in my group, other days I feel like I'm just a scared child. Most of the people I spend time with all have their ideas of what I should do or how to move forward...
Of course when I ask them how to or why, they have no answer.......
Every adult out in the world whether they actually say it or not they are all wandering around saying, "I GOT THIS!" They can be new to adulting or a seasoned veteran, guess what they have no fucking clue!
Seriously, you can ask them for help, you can do everything in you power, you still have no clue.
Every person on this planet has something they want, yet no one really knows how to get it.
I can feel every person older than me judging me, "you should work harder".... "You should go back to school".... "you should buy a house".....
Why because it was an option for you, Because you did it, you think everyone should do it!?!
Unfortunately there is no set way to grow up, every person has a different upbringing, has different struggles.
Each generation is different, each generation has its own struggles, and each generation has no clue how to help the next. If you see a kid out there struggling and you don't approve, guess what they got this just as much as you got this!
You want to give your advice.... fine but don't get mad when your advice doesn't work, or doesn't help!
So you think you "Got This", well guess what You Do!!
You are doing what you can to keep going, sometimes it isn't pretty, it isn't easy, and it isn't fun.
No matter what someone tells you, Things are different for everyone.
Keep Going, Keep Calm, Keep Fighting!!
You Got This!!!
Just some more ramblings of a disgruntled survivor!
